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Meet Kiranjit Ahluwalia -The Woman Who Inspired Rai's Provoked
Here is an interview of Kiranjit Ahluwalia on whose life Aishwarya Rai's Provoked is based on. The woman after suffering years of abuse from her husband set him on fire and then served time in an English prison.

What did you feel when you learnt that a film was to be made on your life?
I was shocked and very surprised. I was very excited to know that Aishwarya Raikiranjit1.jpg is going to play my role. I was also happy because I always wanted to raise this issue. I wanted people to be more aware about such problems.

Does Provoked cover your entire life story or are there any pieces of fiction in the film?
Provoked is very much a true story and it is based on my life. It is a very nice film.

Could you tell us about this incident of your life on which Provoked in based?
Provoked is completely based on my life. It is my story and it shows how domestic violence still exists in our society and how it is affecting lives of women. The film has truth in it and I think everybody should go and watch this film and know about the domestic violence that exists even today and how it ruins a woman’s life.

Provoked is my story and it shows how domestic violence still exists in our society and how it is affecting lives of women
Tell us about your book ‘The Circle of Light’
The book is an autobiography and it speaks everything about my life. It is a 500 pages thick book and the film is about 2 hr 10 mins long. But Jagmohanji has tried to put in everything in this film. The film shows a lot of truth, it shows how Southhall Black Sisters (SBS) started a campaign for me, how barristers were involved in my case, other women organizations from all over England stood by me. Even smaller details like how the women groups came to court everyday etc. are also very well shown in the film.

But wasn’t Provoked criticized by SBS members for altering certain facts?
It is very difficult to please everyone. I wrote my autobiography in 500 pages whereas Jagmohan Mundhra had to make a 2 hr film out of it. But I can say that he tried to incorporate as much as he can in the film.

Has Aishwarya Rai done justice in portraying your character in the film?
Aishwarya has done a very good job and I am really impressed. Ash has done justice to the role of Kiranjit Ahluwalia.

Domestic violence is a serious issue all over the world. Do you think Provoked will help is creating awareness among women?
I hope Provoked will do that. In fact, that is one of the reasons why Provoked has been made. Domestic violence happens everyday in every corner of this world. So, what Jagmohanji and I are trying to say is that the way I got support from thousands of people, even you can gather support. The government should do something about this; they should educate women so that they don’t suffer all this. Thousands of women suffer every year because of dowry, which is wrong. We are in the 21st century and if our women are suffering so much then this is very wrong.

Are you personally taking any steps to promote this film?
That’s exactly why I am in India. If I could take my voice to these women then why not? Through media and by giving interviews, I would definitely want to do that. I want everybody here to see this film.

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This book was published in UK in 1997 with name "Circle of Light" by HarperCollins. Now HarperCollins Publisher's India has released this book with name "Provoked". This costs Rs 295 (though printed price is £8.99). Book is in paperback with 408 pages.
This book is a narration by Kiranjit Ahluwalia herself. Written in a very simple but effective way this book induces a chill and fear in the minds of the reader while going through the ways she was tortured by her husband, her mother in law and most important the circumstances. She lift curtain from the ugly face of our rational values which restricts women to raise voice against domestic violence. Even when she was getting publicity and support from all over the world for her release her family members were worried about izzat (honor) of the family. No body cared about her. She virtually fought alone. It’s a must read for all.
Here is the synopsis of the book for more intellectual species:
Born into a privileged family in India, Kiranjit Ahluwalia came to England in 1979 to be married to a man she hardly knew. The next ten years were to be a nightmare of almost daily, physical, mental and sexual violence at the hands of her husband. There was no one she could turn to for help and support. Domestic violence was a taboo subject for many Asians in Britain, and family honor was at stake for anyone who went outside the family for help. Kiranjit, in desperation, killed the man who had tortured her for so long. Bewildered, poorly advised and speaking little English, she was sentenced to life imprisonment for murder. In prison, she unexpectedly found a degree of freedom she had never known in the outside world. For the first time she was safe from beatings and abuse, and was able to enjoy the friendship and solidarity of other women who were in a similar situation.
Meanwhile, a campaign organized by Southall Black Sisters, a women's group operating on a shoestring budget, to draw attention to her plight, was gathering momentum. Media coverage of her case had made Kiranjit something of a 'cause celebre' and she attracted many prominent supporters, including Diana, Princess of Wales who urged her to write this book. She was released amid scenes of rejoicing in September 1992 when her conviction for murder was reduced to manslaughter on appeal. Regina v Ahluwalia has become legal history because it was a landmark ruling that paved the way for other women in Kiranjit's situation.


way to go girl serves here dead hubby rite

I saw the film 'Provoked' yesterday. All I can say is Hats off to you Kiran..you have what it takes to pull thru everything that you went thru..there were times when I felt like screaming myself..I as a woman myself could feel ur pain..
Iam happy to know that ur a leading a happy life today..ur sons must be very very proud of you today..I as a fellow Indian sure am..Can't wait to read Circle of Light..is it available in India?

hi. i saw the movie 'provoked' yesterday and it inspired me alot! i think mrs.kiranjit ahluwalia's story should be known by everyone! although, after watching the movie, i was wondering, did the woman who was sharing the cell with mrs. kiranjit ahluwalia, who, as portrayed in the movie was in jail because she murdered her husband due to domestic violence like mrs. kiranjit, get released from jail as well? she was called Ronnie (Veronica) in the movie. i've been looking for ways to find out as to what her future was and finally reached this webpage! if someone knows the answer to my query, could you please post it as a comment here. i will be very greatful. thanks!

Hi, ive seen the film and it really touched my heart!! your a strong women kiran and i would love to meet you and help you help other women..

I SAW PROVOKE THE OTHER DAY,AND WAS VERY MUCH IMPRESSED BY THE FACT THAT NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE FOR INDIAN GIRLS,IF THEY WANT THEY CAN WORK WONDERS.I REALLY APPREICIATE MRS. KIRANJIT ALUWALIA'S COURAGE AND CONFIDENT,TO FIGHT BACK INJUSTICE, THOUGH SHE KNEW LITTLE ENGLISH AND LEAVING IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY ,SHE FOUGHT FOR HER RIGHTS AND RIGHTS OF MANY OTHER SISTERS SUFFERING FROM THE SAME CAUSE.HATS OFF TO YOU MRS. ALUWALIA AND THANKS TO ALL THOSE WHO HELPED YOU.I BEEING A INDIAN WOMEN ,IAM REALLY PROUD OF YOU.

WOW..... what a film, provoked is an absolute fntastic cad story in a very positive way, i cried watching that film,it a film which touches people's heart, and i really do hope provoked can help all the women around the world who experiancing abuse to stand up for them selves without shame. Kiran every woman today is so much proud of u, i wish u the happiest life

Saw Provoked today in Trivandrum, India. Liked it a lot. I wish the movie would get the same coverage that Mira Nair's Namesake is getting.

Great job kiran....
I am proud of you and all those Southall Black Sisters,veronica and other who were involved in getting u free from the life which u were facing.

Hey all Indians come on learn from the story and please teach to ur child how to respect girls and also how to stand against injustice.
Now also many ladies suffering a lot, please help them and also stop to happen these all injustice.
Cheers to strong lady and all the best ahead :)

Hi Kiran

This is an excellent movie and portrays the real life story of thousands of women world wide. Domestic violence is more of a problem among communities from Indian subcontinent, as the women are expected to suffer in silence. She hardly gets any support to fight back.

I was particularly touched by this movie because my mother suffered serious domestic violence when I was a kid. I only hope that she was as courageous as you were and taken steps to oppose it. Instead she put up with it mainly due to the lack of support from family and support.

Salutations to you Kiran and hope your story will inspire women and they will stand upto the bullies.

Hi Kiran ji I saw the film Provoked amazing I want to tell u that u were in London u got the support from everyone think of women in our country . I am to do something for them.
Pragna

Please mail me I want to share my as well as ur emotions with u .
Pragna

I watched this Movie and I was really impressed...You are a courageous woman and I would like to tell you how lots of people support you :-)
I understand you and I hope this movie will open the door of silence 'cause unfortunately many women suffers of domestic violence...IT 's TIME TO SAY STOP !....

Great jb kiran :) i really liked the movie a lot and i hope everybody liked that... But Kiran one thing i still want to know. what happend to Ronnie (Veronica), is she still alive? where is she?
thanks and well done !

Hi Kiran !
great job. Movie was raelly nice and hope that it will help lot of people, but i still want to know one thing, what happend to Ronnie (Veronica). is she still alive and where is she. what was the end of her story.
u have done a great job kiran !
thanks and well done !!

Hello,

I have just this minute returned from the cinema after enjoying the film Provoked. I, myself am a 19 year old young woman whom have heard many stories which have entailed a firm amount of issues which have occured in i'm sure loads of women's lives around the world, including my mother. The film has proved to be very inspirational and i feel is extremely encouraging for women to speak proud and openly about experiences of domestic violence. I feel the film is positive and influential to women who do not feel they have the support around them. The fact that these issues have been risen has enlightened me on how women of your generation were made to behave and forced into a life of male domination which became a potential cover up of their true selves. Both the film and the story have been exceptional to the truth and have enabled me to acknowledge such issues and attempt to make sure others in my generation of strict families etc, are aware of such positions they can be put in. Once again i have found the story inspirational and proud for giving women justice. It has been educational to learn and research such realities in which especially your generation and other women have encountered. Thank you for this. I as a young asian woman will treasure this and respect every woman who had to participate in such pain. My mother was married of an arranged marriage for 18 years. She finally divorced my father and studied to be a solicitor. These days i believe many members of the youth don't understand or appreciate what our parents do for us. I respect my mother and can't love her enough for taking us away from our father of whom was absolutley no help to our family life. Thank you once again for sharing.

Immerjit Kaur Kallay
emmakallay@hotmail.com

Great job Kiran, I am so so proud to know you took this step to protect yourself and your little children. Dpmestic violence really affects our kids. I have been through this myself and got myself out of the situation very quickly. It is sad that even though these jerks do this to us, their parents stick by them and say their son is not at wrong. If all mothers taught their sons to respect women, this would not happen. Mother-in-laws forget that they were once someone's daughter -in-law also and why repeat the same tradition all over. Women are womens' worst enemies....everyone needs to watch this film and learn from it and live a peaceful life. The movie brought tears to my eyes because it brings back memories from my own experience. Kiran you are a very brave woman, may everyone learn from this and stand up for themselves. May god bless you and your kids.

such a great film .it is inspirational .a good job by ash . being a man , it may me think some of the pain i give to my wife . there are some scenes which reflect the same events in my life . the film has made me sorry of my action . may others think over it again
mohun

Such a great film. Inspirational and commanding.

I am a medical student and being a man watching this film, really touched my heart.

I do not know where to start. After watching the film i was so shocked that abuse; specially women abuse still exists today. My heart goes out for you and for others who are still being abused. What good a husband is if he cant be your other half. Your life long partner, a soul mate, a friend and most impotently your Family.

God made women for a reason. To carry on generation and yet today people do not recognise the fact. Women are being abused today for what mainly today "Dowry" few bloody Pounds, dollars, and rupees. "No man is worth your tears" I believe that Man are forgetting something this days that it was a women who gave them this Life.

May god help you in any obstacle's which you might face.

-Nikhil Patel


An outstanding movie with an outstanding performance.

All in all a great concept. In the modern age today it is heart breaking to find that issues of domestic violence still exist. From this movie we donot only see Kiranjit Ahluwalia's life story but all those other women who have equally suffered the very same kind of pain. I was thoroughly impressed by the manner in which the entire story was protrayed,yet it was a mere piece that we can imagine what Madam Kiran had undergone during those ghastly 10 years.You should never give up when one door of your life closes there will always be another door opening right ahead its just a matter of time to find it. This moive is another example for people to always believe in yourself and never give up hope since hope sustains everything.

Hats off to Madam Kiran and the movie makers , the movie is a mere droplet in an ocean of awareness still to be made amidst all women - young and old. Since every drop counts and depends upon you and me let us all stand up and fight for each others right to live in this world with dignity,pride and freedom. It is never too late to contribute in any manner possible. Always remember we are all brothers and sisters if we cannot feel each other's pain then who will?

God Bless!

~Binamra Gurung~
Xuzhou Medical College
China

Hi Kiran,

My name is Shelley and I am 15 yrs old. Although I am of Indian descent, both my parents are West Indian. I watched Provoked last night with a very close friend of mine who is Punjabi. As the movie progressed, I was horrified by your experiences; I could not fathom the idea of a husband treating his wife in such a way. The most disturbing part of the night however, was when my friend turned to me and said "Shelley, all Punjabi men are like that..my Dad pushed my mom down the stairs when she was pregnant too and he beats her all the time, but she always covers up for him." I turned to my friend and said, "How would your mother feel if you were the one in her shoes? Would she want you to cover up for your abusive husband?" My friend is going to watch Provoked with her mother today and I hope that she realizes that as a mother of daughters, she must role model how she would want them to live their lives.
Kiran, your story has inspired all women. You have touched the hearts and souls of even those who do not experience domestic violence. You have set an excellent example of bravery and I hope that my friend's mother is only one of many women who will take heed of your story and emulate your courage.

Kiran, after seeing Provoked I realized what a strong person you are! I like the quote from the movie "In life there no honor in silent suffering. There is no affection in love that is abused." Like others said it's heartbreaking to see these things still exist. There really needs to be an end to domestic violence. All the bad things that happen in life lead to something good.

no women sholud let her husband rise his hand on her, if a man rise his hand, a women must show him that she also can fight, we are not any toys that men can love and hate anytime they want, what Kiranjit Ahluwalia did makes me proud, and gives me courage to be strong in life. such husband deserve hell!

An outstanding movie... and an outstanding performance by Aishwarya.
and such a tragic life story. Although I would like to say that I don't understand why you feel guilty for doing what you did. I am sure your husband never felt guilty about abusing you. This was the right step you took towards freeing yourself and your children. I really hope this movie will awaken all other women out there who are afraid to take a step against the abuse they have been suffering.
Before watching this movie, I was totally unaware of your story, and also unaware that such abuse still exists in our society. I hope this movie reaches out to all those women out there who are still afraid to step out of the circle of domestic violence and make the world a better place for THEMSELVES and their children.
Excellent, Excellent job done.

Hi Kiran,

This was an outstanding movie. I really hope this movie serves its purpose right and the women in our society learn to stand up for themselves. You have suffered so much in your life. This describes you as a very brave soul. I was shocked at what you suffered for ten long years. I still cant get over what happened to you. No one can ever make up for what you went through, but I hope by watching your movie, people will get the real message behind it and try to bring a change in the world, which has long been waited on. I hope this is a good awakening call for all the abusive husbands. Life is too short, and once its gone, it'll never come back. You can make things better only here and only NOW.

Very emotionally draining experience!!! Its extremely disturbing & disheartening to know & see the kind of abuse[both physical & mental] that is still prevelant in our society.It definitely takes a strong woman to go against all that she believes & is told to take a step that would be best for her & her children!!Just to think that there are so many more such women who undergo similar pain & anguish & whose issues never see the day of light ... makes us rethink the values that we are & would be giving our children!!Hope that this movie & u'r efforts ... do see the intended results & we get to live in a better world!!

Hi Kiran, I have been a supporter of your from 1989,when I was just in my early 20's.
I had just heard of a woman killing her husband, because of the years of abuse which he bestowed upon her.
I then put pen to paper and started to write a poem about you. The poem I wrote is called 'Trapped'

Now in my late thirties, Iam still writing about all kinds of abuse, and was excited when I heard that the film about your life with deepak was comming out. Iam of West Indian parantage and feel that what ever nationality a person is froms no-one deserves the right to be treated the way in which your husband did you.
I have also performed this poem at several local community events and would like to dedicate it you.
Kiran,it would be a great honour to hear you read my poem 'Trapped' someday.
Iam looking forward to seeing the film on Friday and hopefully will get to see you too.
Good luck for the future.
Janet Plummer

This is the finest movie to date starring Aishwarya Rai.She has engrained soul in her performance.Very Sincere effort by the director and the entire team of Provoked.And special credits to Aishwarya Rai,she can now silence her detractors who say that she is not a good actress

Kiran,
I saw the movie provoked and was crying till the end of the movie, because i am experiencing the pain you had undergone.I liked your message "Every mother should teach her sons how to respect and care women in their entire life". That's right it should come from the begining.
Thank you.

Hi kiran,
I have just watched the movie provoked and I also cried throughout the movie. You are a strong women. And your kids are very lucky to have a mother like you. I dont even want to imagine what you went through. Women like you give give us strengh. I'm really happy that women are standing up for themselves. Im only 18 and i no that i would never ever be able to go through that. I honestly felt upset when i watched this movie because i know that theres still women out there being abused by there husbands and i feel like telling them that they're better than that and No one i mean absolutely No one deserves that. Your a great women. And u probably saved so many other womens lives. Your a hero!
Take Care :)

"Hi Kiran your husband kind of reminded me of my ex-husband...but if I were in you I would have just ran away with my two sons instead of burning him alive just my opinion...and I would have reported him and I would have gotten him locked up and I would have also gotten child support I wish I was there to give you advice in the 80's but too bad I was only five yrs old and in america.. LOL okay kiran take care and don't get me wrong but you didn't do anything wrong either alright! take care!"

Dear Kiran: I went through a similar situation, except there was jail time. Even though it was very hard to come out with solid proof, I managed to get out of the situation a free woman. That is all that counts.

Every woman who goes through this type of ordeal should be commanded for having to go through such a hard ordeal.

Thanks for having the laws changed and at least now, men will think twice before becoming abusive. The laws are simply not strict enough and it is without a doubt a shameful situation to find oneself in and very hard to get out.

I am so proud of you. You have given all ASIAN women a new defination of LIFE. My Aunt is suffering from Domestic Violence for past 20yrs back home in India. The system , society refuses to help a women with three kids. I don't know what kind of society it is. I am proud of you for what you did for yourself and for your sons.

Regards
Shipra
USA

I have just seen the movie a few minutes ago on a DVD , wow , you are such a brave strong woman Kiranjit . I dont know how you did it , for so long i would have committed murderer within months after the abuse , not waited 10 years . Ashwarai was also brilliant in her role . unfortunately many women in the Asia and Arab community still suffer such abuse and many still dont have anyone to turn to . it still continues . hope you are doing well now KIranjist

Hi Kiran,

I just wanted to say that I saw the movie provoked today. It was such an awesome film. I am not of any Indian decent, but we as woman all feel the same, love the same and hurt the same. You are an inspiration to many women around the world, and I am happy to see that God has placed you into a position like this so you can be of assistance to other women that are going through what you went through. You are a strong, beautiful and talented woman, and keep doing what you are doing for all women of different cultures.

hi i have just watched provoked and it really has touchedme i empathise with kiran in so many ways. i myself am from southern africa and our cultures regarding family honour are almost identical. i live in the uk now and found myself in a similar situation of domestic violence and because of my culture domestic violence is regarded as something that a husband and wife should resolve. it is so shamefull and you cannot talk to anyone about it. basically once married the husband owns his wife and no one not even family can intefer. i have been so afraid words cannot express this fear. i managed to get out of the situation but because i left my husband i am considered an outcast by some. however that is not the end of the world people like kiran are to be commeded you give hope to us . i am sorry for what you had to go through. God bless r

hi kiran
theres so much every1 has 2 say.u went thru so which no one can ever put 2 words.but i only hope there won't be any more KIRANJIT AHLUWALIA'S.
all the very best

Dear Kiranjitji,We got to watch the film yesterday. It was suffocationg to know how you must have spend those ten years in mental and physical torture, but i really salute you for the initiative taken and also would want to convey my regards to people those who stood by you in those times. i now wish to meet you and also read the book as soon as i get an opportunity to buy it. i am settled in a remote town of Assam in India. My children Ruchi(daughter), 11 years and son(Ronnie), 8 years were also touched by the story and would want to convey their warm wishes to you and your children. Warm Regards, Indu Singh

Hi Kiran,Just watched ur movie 'Provoked'.Your bravery is amazing.Dont ever regret for what you have done.You have the whole world to support you.This is a must watch movie for all.The ladies must stand up and voice out their sufferings.This should be a good lesson to all husbands who still torcher their wives.Never under estimate women.Just couldnt imagine the reality that you went through.But why do men behave like that?Psycological disorder then get it corrected why torcher the wives.Really all husbands must realise that wives are no longer their slaves but humans too.Great fete Kiran!! We Salute you

Cheers

hi kiran, juss watched the movie of ur life .. its really terrible to see how much oppression u faced tht too from ur better half ... bt hats off to ur guts tht u fought with urself .. i just wonder over the insenstivity of men .... and think are all men the same ?

saw d movie 'provoked'..........itz terrible......
its really appreciating kiran..........abt ur courage.
hats off 2 u kiran...
i really cried just by seeing d crime... dnt know hw u must hv gone through it.........
there r d firm ladies KIRAN bedi & KIRAN ahluwalia in our country......
hope 4 ur gud future.......

hi kiran

recently i saw ur muveee........... & the words are just not sufficient to describe the feelling after it.

after so much of suffering, u( bcoz i was able to fell u & ur feelings thru aish) evolved life a volcano who bursts out & let all the lava split on the society so tht othr can also feel the heat & rspect othr half of society.

just................actually no words

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